Time & Preparing for a Wedding

Time is slippery. Just when you think you have a hold on it, before you know, it's the morning of your friends' wedding, and you're going over details in your head, trying to get everything done. There's champagne and snacks for the bride and her nephews, there's snapping photo after photo, praying you get a couple of good shots, because, let's face it, I'm more of a got-lucky photographer than a skilled one. Is it just me, or when you help a friend plan her wedding, you don't realize what you've signed up for until it's over and people have told you that you did a lot? That happened last night at the reception and I started shaking my head before I thought about it. It was fun, and I did it because I love the couple, but now I wonder how I did it all without going crazy. She's the most laid-back bride I've ever known and that made it more of a pleasure working with her. I was more high-strung about the whole thing. I needed Xana...